Wow! We have had Helen for one week now. In some respects it feels like it has been longer. It has been wonderful to see Helen’s progression of attachment to us and to see some of the real her. She is such a happy and inquisitive girl! She loves to play - especially with paper. We think it possibly is a novelty to her. She can entertain herself folding, unfolding and turning the same piece of paper for a long time. She also likes the “I drop it, you pick it up game”.
She started to learn to feed herself last night. When I would feed her Cheerios she would just open her mouth and make no attempt to try to feed herself. When I would try to have pick them up herself she would pick them up and purposely drop them. Last night she went from hiding her hand under the bib to taking the Cheerio from my fingers and putting it in her own mouth and then clapping. She then would start to fuss if you didn’t give her praise for doing it. If she could talk, one of her favorite phrases would probably be, “Do it again!” I think we have a little ham on our hands.
We are really impressed with the variety of food that Helen will eat. She will try anything and can eat a lot for her 14 lb body. Laura has been quite adventurous as well. She will try most things but has settled on rice (white or fried) being her favorite. She has done really well without her allotment of milk. Here the milk is reconstituted which she does not like. She has decided that her belly button does not call for milk anymore, it calls for food. It will call for milk in Minnesota only.
Laura is doing great as a big sister. Sure it is hard adjusting to sharing her parents especially after having four adults at her beckon call for two weeks in Hong Kong, but she is doing well. It has been wonderful to have Ross and Karin here to help take care of Laura and make our transition smoother. I have heard the other families talk about how they miss their children at home and I am so grateful that I have mine all here. The other day when I out of the bathroom, Laura and Helen were sitting in Laura’s little foam bed and Laura was singing to Helen about how God made all of the big things.
Laura loves the swimming pools here and has readily taken anyone one up who invites her. That is her favorite time to be outside. She has been a real trooper walking lots of miles around the cities with us. She is ready to have cooler weather as she said yesterday, “I don’t want to go outside, I’ll get all hotted up again!” It has been consistently in the 90’s and very humid. I think that we also look forward to temperatures in the 80’s with less humidity. Here we come Minnesota!
We are all very eager to get home and to establish our new routine. Even though we know that there will be a lot more things to keep us busy we miss it - especially our own beds (In China, they prefer extra firm beds) and turning the water faucet on and drinking from it!
Here is a picture of our two girls:
